In 1994, I made the 36 mile drive from Elkton, Md, where I lived, to Chestertown for the first time, having picked up a music therapy contract with Heron Point, the area's continuing care retirement community. It was the beginning of the journey that would eventually lead to official certification as a music therapist (I was recruited for music therapy contracts prior to being certified and didn't solicit them until afterward) and eventually, ongoing relationships/contracts with around 30 senior communities. It was also the beginning of a 25 year association with Heron Point, and many long term relationships, even some with residents who have been there as long as I.
Gone are the days when I maintain active contracts with dozens of senior communities.
The page has pretty much turned on that, with the exception of Heron Point. At this point, anything you can imagine a pianist doing at a retirement community, I am (some of the residents have a standing line that I should already have my own room there). One of the very meaningful things I get to do is play the majority of the funeral/memorial services. Without exception, each one is an inspiration, as the resident's life is recounted, remembered and revered. These experiences fall into the category of off the radar screen (or the stage) things I do that are among the most meaningful. Music makes connections, and these connections are beautiful. I am a blessed guy.